4. Be Kind And Amicable While Breaking Up
Amicable break up’s are the best breakups. Obviously, that only happens if the break up is mutual; even if it isn’t. If the boy is breaking up, it helps if he’s kind and amicable and doesn’t act like a d****bag. – Ishita, Social Worker.
5. Make Both Parties Agree To Breakup
I would love it if the guy who is breaking up with me uses reverse psychology, making me believe that I’m the one who actually wants to break up! It’s a lot easier and there is no hostility at the end of the day because both the parties are in agreement! – Sanya, Entrepreneur
6. Don’t Break Up In Text Just Meet Her And Say
I’ll appreciate it most if someone has taken the time to meet me or call me (if they’re not in the same city). Texting to break up is a big no. On the other hand, if it was a couple of dates and you guys haven’t really spoken on the phone, it’s okay to text and say, “I think you’re a wonderful person, but the chemistry doesn’t seem right” or this feels more of a friendship thing” and they can end it with “just wanted to be honest, but I really enjoyed hanging out with you, and hope you find someone great” – Manasi- Mental Health Professional
7. Compassion And Kindness
I would like it if the guy who is breaking up with me sits me down and talks maybe after a couple of drinks and home cooked dinner! Haha. Compassion and kindness are two very important things to have when you’re going to do something that’s going to hurt someone. So just be compassionate! – Nishi, Writer